About relationships.

Another thing to think about~ xD

I'm pretty sure many teenagers will probably go through this phase in life~
You know~ whereby some of those that doesn't really do well in relationships will be sadden, going emo etc.... And those that usually have lots of ex bf/gf will swear/curse/complain when they breakup followed by sweet love quotes on their blog/msn/IM or something when they make up or found another partner..
(Of course not all of em, i really do salute those that can maintain a relationship for years even when they're only as young as 12-14 years old, some which even lasted to marriage.)

I wouldn't say it's lame, because as we move on in life, we will come to learn that there're some things that just ain't worth it to feel sad about.

I recently came to realise part of it, when 2 of my close friends started to couple not too long ago~ And they're not one of those that are that experienced in coupling... (Hiak Hiak Hiak~ xD!!)
Given the situation, they'll usually ask for point of views and advice on what they should do when they are conflicts..

There's many unspoken rule in a girl and boy relationship~A common one is whereby guys will usually fork out extra money when going to the movies, on food, calls, maybe even shopping... for the girls. This is very common and please take note that this isn't a complain from my side as a guys to the girls. I guess it's a kind of responsibility that we bear as guys are usually the dominant ones (True or not? o.O) and it shows masculinity.

As this post is about problems teenagers will face in a relationship, i'm sure the money usually comes from parents (pocket money) or part time jobs.. That being said, there will be an added expenses which arises when being in a relationship.
I guess this is the primary conflict my friends is facing.

And that is just one of it.

Makes me feel like it's damn blissful to be single now.
Of course, it doesn't mean that i hope to be a bachelor. =x

And i was like, "lol, u couple so troublesome single like me mah good lorh =D" to my 'that close friend'
What he replied was probably the reason i started this entry.

There's ups and downs being single and being in a relationship~
Many teenagers feel sad when they can't find someone to couple with, and there're some that doesn't treasure their relationship and feels that being single is better because of the troublesomeness of having a relationship.

I'm crapping alot, but what i think is...

We should fully enjoy every moment, even when we're single we can really be happy as there're friends. It's because i saw many single ones being over depressed because they broke up or fail in courting somebody... What some of them didn't know is that there're some happiness that can only be obtained while they're single. Being in a relationship is certainly a very joyful and happy thing, but what about the troublesomeness that comes with it?

Be happy when you're single, let the events in life lead you to the next step.. Don't spend every single moment of being single in sadness because you can't be with the one you love..
And to those that are in a relationship~
Treasure moments of happiness with your love ones, bear with the hardships in a relationship and not let the thought of the troublesomeness in a relationship lead you to end the love..

There're always two sides to everything.

(End of my crapping entry, sorry for the long post, and thanks even if you didn't read all of it... One more thing, there's no such word as troublesomeness =D)