Friday, July 25, 2008

Friends.

I'll make this entry short.

I'm kind of confused now really, whether to have just a normal and good friend, rather than a close friend thats an asshole...

When u became close to your friends, of course the natural thing is that you guys mix together alot and they will probably be more straight forward with you.

And nobody usually mind thier manners when they're with their close friends, I mean, hei.. whats with the formality? You're with your close friends ma..

It's probably not the same with other people.

Try having your close friends, talking bad things about you in front of you.
When i say bad things, of course it's not like being selfish, or an asshole etc..
What if they insult you about ur person as a whole, your looks for example, like saying you're a fatass, or you look ugly, that sort of things.

When u get pissed of, they'll then say things like.. "Oh yah hor, forget d.. you cannot take a joke one.. haha"

That's may be right, maybe i couldn't take a joke.
But it doesn't seem that way when u repeat about it for a few times..

When you think about it, if they can say things like that about you in front of you, and then say that it's actually just a joke.. But certainly it's also because that in their mind they think like that about you only then they'll say it out loud, right?

I'd rather be more with my new friends at college, where all of them are mostly friendly, and helpful too.. Although it was just the first week of my college.

I won't comment much of who he is, let's just say.. If i were to describe him it would be, someone really selfish, and doesn't care much about the feelings of others.

你啦,又"insert insult here"啦,又"insert another insult here",還有hor又"insert another insult here".

And when you get pissed off, he goes :"哦。。忘記了,你這個人不能開玩笑的。。"

If that person read this he'd probably know who he is, and if he gets pissed off about my entry this time, i don't really care if we're still friends or not. Lol~

With friends like these, who needs assholes.

你說開玩笑,我說你傷到我。

8 comments:

✗ɕɑℜмεη said...

ok... i know ur feelings bout tat... cos i got those feelings b4.. sometimes my classmate oso being sarcastics... so annoying... !!!

Xeon said...

well~

living in this world~u either change urself for this reality~or ignore everything that you don't want to accept~

well what i wan to say is~when u make a fren~must observe their personalities and accept~that's y u with ur fren can be best fren rite? if it's not~it's just feeling linked u 2 and become best fren? or what is it?

anyway~think before u rated someone to be ur best fren~

*~Xeon~*

✗ɕɑℜмεη said...

yeah... tats rite...i choose to ignore n accept the fact.. sometimes juz comfort myself, still got one yr to go... i can still differentiate who is my ever best frens..

juz one of my classmate insult me b4.. tat kind of feling har... is so hurtful..

for now, i don tink tat i got best frens at college, the one who close to me, i juz rate her as gud frens..

Sena said...

It's not really about 'rating' them as Friends,Close Friends, or Best Friend right?

I didn't even use the term Best.

Heck, if u mix around often you naturally become Close Friends right?

And going to that level of friendship means u can see their bitchy sides/personality already.

✗ɕɑℜмεη said...

yeah.... i juz got only one fren i rated her as close fren BUT~~~ i tink after one n the half yr, our frenship will slowly turn to fren only....wont b close anymore..

n recently, i heard someone said " no wonder others said tat when went to college, everyone is selfish" tis is reli the fact... n i had experience it b4...

but luckily, i still got my genuine n best best frens although v r not studying the same course, but v still can maintain our frenships...

Xeon said...

well~

for me~if u ask me who is my close friend~i will tell you there's not really many~the one i really share things with~is not much~

well if u say friends~normaly i mix with them really much~they're my friend yes~if u mean close~well i can say~in my "rating system", they're not yet~i need lots more observation for human~lol~

well~so when u say the others side of the "close friend" which is my "friend" only~that let me know them better~

so actually~u spend time observe~don't you? or just go with feeling bah~anyway~when u choose to trust someone~or cham with someone~it's your choice what~they're who they're~well they react like that is because of it's their personalities~cham them~then accept all those thing lo~abo juz ignore lo =_=~

it's like~u can say i have my bad side~maybe u're still with me because u accept da way i'm? or u think i hav ntg bad? lol~

anyway juz my comments bah~

*~Xeon~*

✗ɕɑℜмεη said...

hahah... of cos i did observe them for quite some times..
then only i started to rate them..

y don u add a chatbox thr???

n i m still with u bcos i ignoring ur bad side... hahaha... eg : egoistics... hahaha..lolx.. jk jk

Sena said...

Chatbox ar..
Wait i next time really really nothing to do then i onli add..

=x